Strict Comparison Cdbcriteria. How ?

Hi.
I'm using "many to many" relations, and i'm trying to write search based on strict comparison for some properties of model, which is "many to many" relationship.
If i writing IN condition (by method addInCondition) for this relationship - it's not strict searching 'cause
query match to each model, which satisfy to at least one of seted in addInCondition values. I wish to get models, which satisfy all seted velues in addInCondition.

For exapmle:
table user
id.....name
1......John
2......Mary

table user_to_country
user_id.....country_id
1................1
1................3
2................2
2................1

table country
id................country_name
1................United Kingdom
2................Ukraine
3................Afganistan

If i set :
$criteria->addInCondition('country_id', array(1, 3));
In result i'm retreive John and Mary, but i wish to get only John, 'cause only it match to all values, which seted in addInCondition (1, 3)

Thank you in advance.